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Learn who you are and what you want and then move in that direction.
Theocratic Warfare has long been a controversial aspect of Watchtower theology.
I would think: Okay, those things are wrong, but I don’t even know what those wrong things are.
Wifely dues were something the husband wanted but the wife didn’t particularly like.
My understanding was that men love sex, and the “love” they feel for a woman or even their kids—I still marvel over fathers who WANT to play with their kids—was more of an ownership kind of love – like they’d love their car, TV, or fishing pole. She went on to say that I needed a good dose of self-respect and presented me with a “homework assignment.” I would take a break from dating and make a list of twenty-five things I liked about myself.
Even though he doesn’t dance, I decided that was not a deal breaker. One is that the JW view of dating and sex can lead to warped and twisted thinking – that in turn leads to low self-esteem that can lead to harmful situations.
Another lesson is that when a good and trusted friend tells you the truth about yourself, it’s probably a good time to listen and take stock.
Theirs was a “I love it because it’s mine” love – and not connected to any real emotion or feeling. I had a severe drinking problem by this time, and needed to sober up. I will never forget one conversation I had over coffee with a group of people while we were talking about my view of relationships. ” Since I believed that it wasn’t in a man’s nature to love, I honestly thought I was doing the man a favor by leaving. She said, “If you can’t think of twenty-five things you like about yourself, you really have nothing to offer anyone.” Ouch!
One of the guys in the group looked at me in horror, and said, “Maaan, you are cold and heartless, men have feelings too.” “Whaaa? ” He went on to say that men had feelings and I was just breaking hearts, and how cruel I was. It took over six months for me to come up with a list of twenty-five things – not an easy assignment.